Michael. Stop acting like such a cunt. You've actually pissed me off for the first time in what is it now, almost nine years? I'll explain why here, and give you some things to really think about.
Mike: "But then again, i am not encouraging people to be gay or bi, as i do beleive in that a normal relationship should be between a male and a female,"
Tell me again how it's possible to encourage people to be gay or bisexual? People are born with the sexuality they are given. What the fuck gives you the right to tell me that my physical, emotional, and sexual attractions are "abnormal" when i enter a relationship based on those? Should I just force myself to fuck women while I watch Gay porn in the background or imagine sucking off my ex? If that's the 'normal' thing you'd like me to do then okay. Why not, let's see exactly how many girls I mentally fuck up when they find out it was only the vague amount of pressure their vag's gave my cock that got me off, and nothing to do with them.
Your statement in reverse means you support encouraging people into straight relationships. Again I don't see what the benefit it for anybody, society included, to "support" gay people to change their entire set of emotions, bodily functions, and history based on what you think is "normal.
Mike: "Give me shit for it, But penis and vagina seem to fit like a key and lock. How do two penis' work? Like a sword fight."
Oh my god! Way to go, making the complexities of human relationships as simple as allowing someone who knows how to shove a cock into a vagina the complete moral and normal permission to do it. If you really want to turn it into a sexual conversation then here's something for you to chew on: the male G-spot is found up your ass. Biologically speaking, you won't derive the full capacity of sexual pleasure in your life unless you let another guy fuck you. But "give me shit for it," "A cock inside a straight guys ass fits like a key and a lock." See how fucking stupid that sounds?
Yeah, coz some people are straight. They prefer women and therefore derive their sexual pleasure from ploughing into pussy on a daily basis. I have no problems with that in fact I support it fully. Why can't you support the fact that, when I have sex with another guy it's not "like a sword fight", in fact it involves the same amount of emotion, penetration, and consequences as straight sex save for pregnancy? (which is not usually why straight people like you fuck in the first place anyway).
Mike: It just seems kinda odd that it wouldn't as marriage is done through the church and when it comes to it, Wasn't it Adam and Eve, (not 2 gay lovers) that this world had all come from?
Marriage is not done through the church, Michael. Clearly you don't know enough about marriage anyway so your opinion in court would be "inadmissible" but i'll answer you anyway. Marriage is a legal contract that binds two adults together in a civil agreement given by the state for the purposes of tax, spousal benefits, child support, property share and a whole other host of responsibilities and privileges. If someone wants to "marry" in a church they need a legal, state binding marriage certificate first. I am not even acknowledging your "adam and eve" theory. That is about the stupidest argument i've heard in my entire 22 years on this planet. Wake up.
Mike (to my friend): Maybe i should Vote for "against gay marriage" Just to piss you off more, is what you are saying.
Great one, Michael.... one homosexual person goes nuts at you for having bigoted views that every single day harm him, and you then turn around and threaten to vote against real people, in real life, an entire class of the population... just because one person who broadly represents his group disagrees with you. That's the same kind of fucked up reasoning racist's use to deny black people of dignity because one person of color stole something from them ten years ago.
You have no idea how hard it was growing up in a world where I was constantly bombarded with "straight" propaganda. I had no role models as a kid. The church i attended told me I was a sinful, disordered, and dangerous threat to society. My grandparents put me through conselling to "get rid of the gay," and I just dodged being infected with HIV when I was sixteen because I had no-one in my life, or extended community to talk to about how "different I was". I had no idea about HIV/AIDS and I count my blessings that to this day i've never had a sexual disease, but I could have caught it.
It's people like you, and the people who share the same beliefs as you, that don't "deny" Gays and Lesbians exist, but never stand up and say hey, have the same rights and freedoms as me. People like you are the reason that for so many years, I grew up thinking I was an alien, the only person in a whole world full of everybody else who were heterosexual. What else was I supposed to think, huh? Beauty and the beast. Pocahantas. King and Queen. Male and Female. It was ingrained in my brain from birth and through primary school. To tell me that I just suddenly woke up one day and "chose" to be Gay because someone "encouraged" it is to be wholly ignorant of me, our friendship and everything you think you know about the world.
Get a clue.
Don't talk to me until you've really had time to think about how much your comments would upset people, if they were to read them and how you have shown me for the first time since I came out of the closet in 2006... that I have friends who secretly think I shouldn't be in a relationship. Shouldn't marry. Shouldn't be "encouraged" to be myself. Shouldn't get the same rights.
And, you know what. Even though you've pissed me off... If I had the chance to vote on whether or not YOU could get married, I would vote for you to have that right because I believe, that no matter how a person treats other people that all human adults are entitled to the dignity, honor, permanence, and meaning of marriage. The fundamental love we all know of, seek and one day want to be a part of. If New Zealand ever has a public vote on marriage freedoms, please don't vote to have my rights extinguished.
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